Not really where I pictured myself

Life has a funny way of being unpredictable. Just when you think you have it all figured out something changes. I fully believe God knows what he is doing, even when I have no idea of where he is leading me. Marc and I have always been led; led to move to across the country to California, led to move back, led to sell or give away everything we thought we wanted, led to travel in 400 square feet with our children to visit every state, led to keep traveling even when we reached our goal, led to change our RV, led to travel to Europe, led to cross the Atlantic on a cruise ship. All of these situations have been scary, but have brought me peace and joy. Our God is glorious!

This year began like several of the past years. We wintered in Florida with our friends; homeschooling, full time traveling, Christians. We had reservations to fly to Japan in early April and spend a month there and then make the transpacific passage back to the west coast. Well God had other plans as I am sure he did for you. This will be a time we will remember for the rest of our lives.

We quarantined in the Carolinas near my brother and our friends. We spent a lot of time together just the four of us. Somewhere in one of our conversations about when we would be able to travel internationally Cali asked if we could spend Christmas in Northeastern Pennsylvania near our family. That led me to thinking….maybe we could rent a house for a few months. Living in an RV in the cold really can be difficult. We spend lots of time outside and in the cold that really isn’t feasible. I prayed about it for several days and then mentioned it to Marc. In a day or two he sent me a listing for a house, not to rent, but a foreclosure to buy.

We had talked about working on a house with our kids. Teaching them about the things that need to be done in a house and working on remodeling together. As soon as I saw the street name it led me to pray even more. It was on Grace Drive. God has given me so much grace over the years. Grace Drive is about 2 miles from the house I grew up in. The house where I spent most of the first 29 years of my life, in the town where I never thought I would live again. The house was in foreclosure. The bank owned it. I messaged my cousin Donna, who is a realtor and asked her about the house. The housing market was just opening back up after the quarantine. She had not viewed it, but went over and looked at it with us on the phone. It seemed like a good house. It had been empty for over a year and a half. The electric had been turned off so we didn’t really know if anything worked. I asked my mom and Eddie to go see the house and they did the next day.

We decided to put in an offer on the house with out ever even seeing it in person or knowing if anything really worked. When Donna went to put in the offer she couldn’t find the listing. After some searching she found that it had gone to auction that day. We decided to put in a bid. It was scary bidding on a house we had never seen, but the four of us felt like it was the right thing to do. We made sure the kids understood this would be a lot of work, but they were in for the challenge. We put in our bid right away and we were the high bidders (or maybe the only crazy bidders.)

 

Another reason the house may have not had many inquiries, other than the fact that it was being sold as is and nothing could be tested, the assessed taxes were high. We have had the house appraised and are working to get the taxes lowered. Whatever the reason I am thankful that at a time when houses are being sold in hours and days instead of weeks, this house was waiting for us to take a chance on it.

About a week later we left North Carolina and moved to a campground in southern Pennsylvania. We made a day trip to Tunkhannock to see the house on Grace Drive. My cousin Donna met us there. To my surprise one of the first things she said to me was, “Can you believe it’s on Grace Drive?” She went on to tell me about how having grace had changed her life for the better.

We arrived in Tunkhannock with our RV on the 20th of July and worked almost everyday afternoon for three or four hours on the house for the next two weeks. It is a good house, but does have so many things that need to be done. It has beautiful hardwood floors throughout the house which I love. Cali and Marcus scrubbed the walls, ripped down wallpaper and vacuumed. Most of the house has not been painted since it was built in 1972. So far we have used almost10 gallons of primer on the walls and ceilings and aren’t even half done. We have had 22 trees taken down and are working on cleaning up the yard.

What are our plans for the house? Well only God really knows, but we plan to get the inside functional and move all of our items that have been in storage for the last nine years in. We really don’t remember what we saved or why. We are going to spend the fall as house dwellers living near the kid’s grandmas and soaking up as much family time as we can…. But we already have plans to head to Florida after Christmas.

If you would like to follow along on our project house you can check out Cali’s posts.

 

July 2020

We spent the first three weeks of July with our friends at the campground in Hershey.  We played pickle ball almost everyday and met some new pickle ball friends.  We also spent lots of time at the pool since the weather was so hot.  We visited the Hershey Chocolate World and also toured the Yuengling Brewery. We had a chance to work at a friends furniture production and shipping facility.  The boys played miniature golf at least once a day.  Cali and Quentin went kayaking and ended up in the pond.

To celebrate Marcus’ birthday our friends threw him a party a few days early.  We had cheese burgers, worked on mind puzzles and Marcus was on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?

To celebrate Cali’s birthday our friends put together 16 of Cali’s favorite treats and we spent the evening dancing to some of her favorite songs.

Before their actual birthday we moved to Tunkhannock.  Marcus and Cali celebrated  with their Grandmas.  We went hiking at Ricketts Glen State Park with Grammy Red and Grammy Carol made them a giant ice cream cookie cake.  We are so blessed to have so many caring people in our lives.

June 2020

At the beginning of June I was able to get away to the beach for a couple days with my girlfriends.  The guys held down the fort and were able to get together even though they had all the kids.

We had to say good bye to Bill and Krysta and the boys.

Our three families traveled together from North Carolina to Pennsylvania.

While we were near York, PA we were able to spend some time with DJ and Janie and their family.  Cali even worked for them at the Popcorn Loft.

On Fathers Day we met our friends the Cappettas at Hershey Gardens.  It was so nice to catch up with them.

We did some projects and helped our friends.

We went on some field trips with our friends….

and we spent lots of time just doing activities at the campground.  We are so thankful to have been stuck with these two other families for the last three months.

At the end of June it was time to move on.

May 2020

In the month of May we were able to spend some time outside with friends and Bill and Krysta.  We still spent most of the time at home, but we are so thankful for some socialization.

April 2020

We spent the month of April hunkered down in North Carolina.  It seemed to last forever yet it flew by. We studied, sewed, ran, walked and read.  We had communion at home and celebrated Easter just the four of us and  friends put up paper flowers for my birthday.

March 2020

In March, Marcus continued on his quest collecting pressed pennies from Magic Kingdom.  We spent an afternoon going on rides we hadn’t be on since the kids were little.  Oh and the picture of Cali and Marcus walking arm in arm, they were really just trying to aggravate each other.  Sorry to ruin the the illusion.

We had fun getting together for some games and karaoke with our friends!

Aunt Janie, Uncle DJ, Lily, Izzy and Sam came to vacation at Disney.  We had fun going on rides and visiting the parks with them.  Grammy Red even joined in on the fun!

Aunt Janie and Uncle DJ treated Cali, Marcus, Lily and Izzy to dinner with the beast.  Cali even channeled her inner Belle.

We dressed in our pajamas and went to Bruster’s for a free ice cream cone, Marc and Marcus went golfing,  we celebrated Jax’s birthday with a fajita bar,  the teens all went to Ce Ce’s for pizza and we just enjoyed spending time with friends.

Ever wonder how homeschoolers celebrate their graduation?  Well our group of friends went all out.  There were four graduates.  The parents all gave tearful accolades and presented diplomas to their children.  The graduates each have more work to finish, but they wanted to share this accomplishment while we were together.  Marc and Tammy served up fun drinks, there was a candy bar, a slide show filled with so many emotions and of course cake.

We celebrated Coulson’s first birthday a month early and the graduates jumped in the pool with their caps and gowns on!

We went to Silver Glen Springs.  The water was beautiful and the kids had a great day!  We had a late lunch at Odd Todd’s.  The food was amazing.

It all seems like yesterday, even though it was a few weeks ago.  We decided to leave Florida because it was so warm and made our way to North Carolina to self isolate.  We are safe in a campground with two other families, but haven’t had any contact except for a wave or a yelled greeting.  This is a very unique time, but we trust in God.  We pray that you are doing well and staying safe.

 

February 2020

This month began with us celebrating our friends daughters wedding.  Cali helped altering the veil and the dress.  It was such a nice day shared with special friends.

I took a quick trip to visit these two cute pups and their parents.  It was a short, but very sweet weekend!

The campground had a pizza party for the teens.  Marcus and his friend Jax have been attending bible study at the campground and  Cali had been helping with Yoga every Tuesday and Thursday.  Marc and I participated in a Poker Run at the campground with our friends and Tammy even won!  Cali and I volunteered at the snack bar and we helped out serving at the Valentine’s Day dinner.

On Valentines Day the Sqad got dressed up and went to Waffle House for dinner.

Our friend Tom arranged for us to go see the dyno testing of an xfinity race car.  We even got to meet two of the drivers.

We all had fun when we went bowling for Luke’s birthday!

Marcus has started to collect pressed pennies from Disney’s Magic Kingdom.  We spent several afternoons at the park. Marcus also went to Hollywood Studios for Luke’s birthday.

I attended a women’s conference with my girlfriends. It was called Faith That Speaks and was presented by Heidi St. John.  I highly recommend it.

We also purchased a new (to us) car.  With two up and coming drivers we wanted to be sure we had a safe and reliable car. Marcus and Cali really do not like car shopping!

God blessed us with an amazing couple next door.  We just loved Karl and Madelyn.  Karl and Marc spent many hours watching and helping each other fix things. This life style isn’t really about the places.  The places are our motivation to travel, but the relationship old and new are what keep us going.

 

January 2020

At the beginning of January we toured the University of Florida in Gainesville.  We visited Aunt Sue and Bucky while we were in the area.

Marcus’ Christmas gift was making a sword.  He and his dad made the blank out of plywood before they went to the class.  It was a really cool experience and Marcus has a cool sword he made.

We spent a warm afternoon at Kelly Park.  The water was so clear and we all had a good time tubing.

Cali’s Christmas gift was contact lenses!   She did so well adjusting to them.

We spent a morning with our friends at Topgolf.

My friend Heidi and her children Kyle and Becca met us for lunch.  They are visiting from Japan.  We have met up with them in Phoenix, Germany and now Florida.

We have been spending some time using our Disney season passes.

The kids have been spending lots of time with their friends.  These friends are one of the most important reason we are in Florida for the winter!

Several of our friends are playing on a touch football team.  We attend church every Sunday lead by our friend Lewis and then we head to the field to cheer on our friends.

We had our windshield replaced. It had cracked last year when we were in California and it was a great time to have it replaced since we were stationary in our seasonal site.

December 2019

We had two important things to accomplish when we arrived in Florida.  First, we needed to get a Christmas tree.  We bought a real tree and it looked nice all decorated.   Second, the kids went to the DMV and got their learners permits.  The has passed the permit test when they turned 15, but we hadn’t been to Florida to get the permits.

We went to Celebration with a few other families where it “snows” every hour.

Cali worked on a sew project.  Marcus spent time playing games with his friends.  They both played lots of pickle ball and I did one of my favorite things, spend time with little kids.

We spent half a dozen afternoons at Disney.  The Christmas decorations are really something to see.

We spent December 23rd with the Cappetta’s celebrating Natalie’s 16th birthday (and Marc’s birthday too.)  We toured a museum and had an Italian lunch! It was so nice to catch up with them while they were on vacation.

Marc also celebrated his birthday with three of our travel friends who have December birthdays.

On Christmas eve we had appetizers with friends and went to a candle light church service together.

Christmas morning!

We hosted Christmas dinner. Everyone brought lots of food to share.

 

 

 

Thanksgiving 2019

After saying goodbye to Bill, Krysta, Flipp and Weller, we headed to South Carolina to celebrate Thanksgiving with four other families.  A couple of the families no longer travel fulltime so they hosted Thanksgiving dinner.

Our week near Anderson, South Carolina was filled with pickball games and get togethers with friends.  We made gingerbread houses and visited a cave and a waterfall.  We had an awesome dinner filled with so much food, fun games and fellowship.  We attended church and I even went to a baby shower.

We have so much to be Thankful for.